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Friday, April 29, 2011

From Trust to MisTrust. Part 2

After the carpet incident I couldn't take it any more, I called my mom and Aunt E. My mom simply said that Aunt U cannot take it with her when she's dead and don't worry about it.

When I explained what's going on to Aunt L with all these stuff disappearing (Aunt L & Aunt U are sisters)  Aunt L had a different story line, she told me how can I say such things and maybe I'm looking at it differently. Once she told me that I realised that I should just shut up and handle stuff differently.

Let me back up a little bit: Before the carpet incident I remember when I and Aunt U was at the house, Aunt U never let me out of her sight. She was always following me from room to room. I now know its because she knew I know where her deceased sister valuables are/were. So unbeknown to me I was leading her to My deceased aunt valuables.

The last time I saw Aunt U she and I had a huge falling out. It wasn't the fact that she was stealing but it was the fact that she made a comment that was very nerve wrecking to me. Her quote: "Why should you give any crystals among other things to your aunt's church?... They didn't give a dime towards the burial!!"

With that comment I proceeded to the cabinets which had crystals and china in it and started taking out crystals and put them in my moving boxes.

She walked over to me and asked:

Aunt U: Who is that for
Me: For me & my brothers
Aunt U: Why should you take these crystals?
Me: Because I want to!!
Aunt U: Well You cant have them..
Me: Is that so! (as I continued to pack)
Aunt U: You didn't hear me, I said you cant have them.
Me: Don't raise your voice at me and there is no need for you to me coming up in my face waving your finger neither.
Aunt U: What? Why are you so rude? Let me get L(Aunt L) on the phone because this is ridiculous.
Aunt U: L, your nephew is here and he's being very rude to me, I didn't know he was so rude.
Me: So you think its right for you to be raising your finger up in my face, shouting and acting erratically towards me and I shouldn't defend myself?
Aunt U: Little boy you don't know what you just did. (She stood in the corner of dining room and commenced to talk on the phone with Aunt L)
Me: (still packing)
Aunt U: (She's still on the phone talking to her sister): Oh, That's what he said about me.. (She then shouted): Who are you to judge me?
Me: (Still Packing & Ignoring her)
Aunt U: I can't believe this guy. He's here taking all the stuff!!
Me: saying to myself: (wait, wait, wait, all the things I've told Aunt L in confidence she's telling her sister? I trusted her!!! If she can do this I wonder what other information she'll divulge!!!

So two of my aunts that I love and trusted is against me now? okayyyyyyyy!!!! I'm still in disbelief that my own family members that I know most of my life are against me.

I taped up the boxes, put my name on them and left.

The next 2 days I got a call from the management office informing me that they have apprehended a woman in the apartment who claims she is my aunts sister and wants to take stuff out. The office also inform me that seeing that my aunt has passed I am now the primary person on the lease and if family members need to visit or take anything out of the apartment they will have to do so via my consent only.

It was as if the god has finally open the gates of heaven and let the blessings fall on me. I now had the option to have my aunt arrested for trespassing & larceny.

Find out what I did on Part 3 of this post. Expect it next week.

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