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Tuesday, April 26, 2011

From Trust to MisTrust. Part 1

My aunt who passed sister (Lets Call Her Aunt L) and I used to talk everyday. She's the one who called me at the office and told me to be strong. Ever since her sister (Aunt E) got sick, me and Aunt L has become closer or so I thought.

I spoke to her about different situations, choices and just call her twice a day to say hello. I even told her how I felt about her other sister (Aunt U).

I know my post may seem a bit confusing but I have six aunts. I'll break it down so you guys could understand it.
  • Aunt L (in NYC)
  • Aunt T (in NYC)
  • Aunt E (in New Jersey) Deceased
  • Aunt U (in New Jersey)
  • Aunt P (in Atlanta)
  • Aunt J (in The Tropics)
After the funeral I was frequenting New Jersey because I had to pack stuff up and give up the apartment. Aunt L told me that each time I go to Jersey I should call Aunt U and let her know because Aunt U may be able to provide me with some assistance in regards to packaging Aunt E items.

Past History: Aunt E give me a copy of her apartment key and informed me never to give a copy to anyone. Aunt E also added my name to her lease so that if anything happens to her, I can have access to her apartment (No one in the family knows I'm on the lease beside me and my deceased aunt). She also listed me as Estate Controller of all her assets w/specific instructions on how it should be divided up.

Aunt E & Aunt U never got along much, but for the last couple of months before Aunt E passed , Aunt E was trying to make amends with her. But Aunt E still didn't trust her with certain things.

So when Aunt L told me to contact Aunt U for assistance I was baffled. Aunt L even went as far as asking me to give Aunt U a copy of my keys to Aunt E's apartment. I didn't think much of it because I said to myself Aunt E passed and all of them are sisters so who I'm I to refuse someone the comfort of helping in anyway they can.

As soon as I gave Aunt U the key's I realised that a lot of items has been disappearing from the house mysteriously. I took offense that she took jewelry and gold plated flatware from the apartment before my Aunt E's body gone into rigormortis yet!

My Aunt E was a lover of jewelery, but at the same time I don't know how many carat of diamonds she had and how many carats her rings, earrings & necklace were.

When I confronted Aunt U about it she claimed that she took the jewelery and shared it up with her sisters & nieces. I brushed it off and said to myself: Hey, I don't want it so if she gave it away to family members I don't have a problem with that. Because essentially that is what I was gonna do.

The following week I went back to the house and realised that books, personal items, picture albums & valuables were also missing. At that point I was like whoa!!!!!!!

But what really took the cake was I remember each time I visited this apartment Aunt E made me take off my shoes because she never liked me trampling her $2000.00+ dollar rug. And now even the rug is gone!
Stay tuned for Part 2. You may expect it before the end of the week.

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